I'm just going to throw this out there and ask for your thoughts. This is a "conversation" I'm having with a guy on OKCupid whose profile says he's straight but decided to send me a message. His messages are in bold, with my replies following...
Feb 17, 2012 – 1:21pm
Hi,
How are you?
Feb 17, 2012 – 7:29pm
I'm fine...and a bit confused...
Feb 20, 2012 – 2:11pm
Why?
Feb 20, 2012 – 3:40pm
Well, because your profile says you're looking for girls who like guys, and the last time I checked, I wasn't a girl. ;-)
Feb 21, 2012 – 10:55am
Hahaha :0...Well I am not open about it here and hence the reason....
Feb 21, 2012 – 8:16pm
Okay...well, I kinda need to know what I'm getting into here, especially since another straight guy on this site sent me a message recently and we went back and forth a bit before he flaked out, so I don't want to waste time again unless you're serious. So are you saying you're gay or bi but closeted or is it more like you're mostly straight but you like a guy to give you a blowjob now and then? ;-)
If we're going to meet in person, it'll have to be in a public place and it needs to be accessible to public transit since I don't drive. It would also help if you have a picture; since mine is on my profile it only seems fair.